Intimacy

 You feel a certain way when you're being intimate with a person you like or with a person you want to be intimate with. There are different types of relationships and you can either be emotionally invested or have no strings attached.

It's good when you have a thing with someone where you don't need to worry about what the other person feels when something goes wrong. It's known as a "casual relationship" these days where two people get together and do everything that an emotionally invested couple would do but minus the emotional part. It's basically having fun while being physically intimate without having to deal with the extra baggage Aka. Emotions.

It works best when two people of the same mindset and same needs get together and talk about what each of them requires and it usually works when each person's needs align with the other person's needs.

When we're talking about a casual relationship, There's always loads of sex. This is a topic that's considered very taboo to talk about or discuss in Indian families except in a handful of them where the elders actually emphasize educating their children about sex so that they know what the right thing to do is. But, Most Indian households shy away from talking about sex as it's something that only the "elders" should be involved in and teenagers (people who are 18 and below 25) shouldn't be.

But, Here's my opinion, Learning anything at a young age will lead to an individual being more experienced at something and this applies to everything that an individual does in life. Sex is included as well. Most people in our country think that sex is just penetration when it's actually not. There's more to sex than what the common man/woman knows.

When you're having sex, Your excitement reaches a peak. There are a series of intense muscle contractions as your body releases the pressure. The muscles of the uterus and vagina contract thus producing a feeling of tightness and the base muscle of the penis contract and release thus making us ejaculate.

But, What is the point of talking about all this?

There are a lot of things you learn when you're being intimate with your partner and it comes down to how you handle things when something goes south. Let's just say, Your partner had an anxiety attack while doing the deed. Instead of the other person getting scared, The best thing you can do is try and calm the other person down but holding them close and assuring them that nothing will go wrong. Stroke their back. Make them drink water and try to comfort them as much as you can.

This is the best thing you can do when someone is having a panic or an anxiety attack mid-sex and the worst thing to do would be to ignore them which can potentially increase the duration of the attack and make it worse for the other person.

I dedicate this blog to a person I would not like to reveal. If you're reading this, Just know that I had loads of fun with you, And this blog is dedicated to you.